Umama omncinci kudala ejonge idick yonyana wakhe kwaye wathatha ithuba. Xa kungekho mntu endlwini wayemqhatha lula ukuba alale naye. Kwaye njengoko ndiyibona, le ntokazi ilambileyo ayizange ikhathazeke ukuyivumela ukuba ibone amakhubalo ayo. Kuphela ebengalindelanga ukuba asondele ngolo hlobo empundu ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa yayiyimbuyekezo yenkanuko yakhe.
Ukwabelana ngesondo nomntu ongamaziyo okanye iqabane elitsha kunento entle. Yongeza kumava, kwanengcamango yokwenqatshelwe kwabaninzi iyavuselela, ibala amandla kunye nokucinga kweqabane. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwibhari kuphumla kancinci kwaye akuthandeki njengasebhedini. Ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu kunye nokuphululwa kwesi sibini kufanelwe yindumiso nokhuthazo.